5.19.2010

"Today I Feel..."

5.19.2010 0
Amanda requested a blog on my emotions.  Open the floodgates!

No, but really, it's hard to decide how I should feel right now.  I'm sad because I'm leaving my first real job - and a good job, one that I actually enjoy.  I have an amazing team of coworkers that I will sorely miss - we all have a similar work ethic and a "no drama" attitude - and I know that's hard to come by.  They've become my family over the past year, and it's so hard to just walk away as if they meant nothing to me.

I'm also sad to be leaving what I've called "home" for my entire life.  It's been such a blessing to be so close to my parents - close enough to call ahead a few hours in advance and be home on time for dinner, or to come home often enough to do all of my laundry and play the Wii with Mom instead of sitting alone at the laundromat all night.  I'll miss the weekends at my parents' house on the Mississippi - there's nothing more relaxing than sitting out on the patio overlooking the river with a cold beer and some good music.  These are the things that I know I won't come close to in New York.


On the other hand, I have so much to look forward to - I'm moving to another "world" - I can't wait to finally be living in the same zip code as Andy, and to take in the culture of the city life.  I'm not a fool - I know it will be hard, both financially and emotionally, but I've reached a point in my life where I truly believe I'm up to the challenge.  Maybe it's the stress of moving and figuring out everything that needs to be finished in the next week and a half, but for some reason, I'm not scared.  Any normal human being put in this position should be - I guess I'm just an odd duck.  Ask me again in a week - I may have changed my mind on that subject by then.  :)

Back to packing - tomorrow is my last night "on the town" with the girls from work, and then it's good-bye to Minnesota.  Thanks for the memories!

Malice

5.13.2010

"Crunch" Time

5.13.2010 0
Well, this week came with a little surprise added to my "to do" list.


So, my parents were in the Cities this past weekend and I sent them home with my Monte Carlo and kept the Suburban so I could start loading, because - HOLY CRAP! - I'm moving in two weeks!


Here's the timeline:



So I got up for work on Wednesday morning and found a note on my windshield and a huge dent in the side of my truck.  As it turns out, my neighbor in the parking garage had misjudged the amount of space she had to park the night before and didn't realize she had hit the Suburban until it was much too late.  Unfortunately, this means that I will be adding a trip to the body shop into my busy week, and most likely not having the truck for 2-3 days.  However - it still runs, her insurance is paying for the repair, and I got a new parking space out of the deal.  

               

I guess I should say the luckiest part is that she contacted me at all... and that I didn't have anything like my piano loaded in the back already.

Now, on to more exciting news... we signed a lease!!!  Andy and the other couple we're living with found an apartment in a brownstone in Bed-Stuy - we'll be on street level, close to the train station, AND we'll have our own private backyard!  I'm so excited.  I wish I could find a way to show the street view from Google Maps on here without giving my address away to the entire web world... I guess you'll just have to wait a few more weeks until I can take a picture myself.  

Back to a fun-filled weekend of packing... it's crunch time!

Malice

5.08.2010

The "How" - Part I

5.08.2010 0
So, how does a person go about moving across the country?

For one, I'm not a billionaire - I've only been out of college for two years, and I wasn't exactly raking in the big bucks during that time.  I have a little saved up, but I'm still trying to cut as many corners as possible.


#1:  Moving My Crap
The first thing I checked into were moving vans.  U-Haul was out of the question.  The smallest vehicle you can rent for a one-way move is a 10' "Mini-Mover" - which was $800 for up to five days of use, not including fuel at about 12 mpg.  Scratch that off the list.

When Andy moved to NY a year ago, he rented a mini-van from the airport - I forget the company the rental was from, but his brother managed to talk them down to something like $400 a day for the rental, with gas at maybe 20 mpg.  I considered enlisting Andy's brother's help again, but I wanted to check a few more places first.

I looked at a few different options - minimoves.com quoted my move at a little over $1,000 - plus, they would move everything for me.  Unfortunately for them, a couple of the reviews other people wrote on them scared me, so I scratched them off the list.  I would rather pack and drive my own stuff across the country than worry about someone I don't know losing everything I own.

Option 4 came as a bit of a surprise - my parents offered to let me borrow their Suburban, and then my dad would fly out to New York and drive it back.  It gets about 17 mpg, and there wouldn't be any charge for a rental or insurance involved.  One thing this move has brought to my attention is that there are a lot of people that care so much for me - I know my dad wants to make sure I'm okay and see where I'll be living and everything, but I still get choked up when I think that he would make a 19-hour drive by himself for me.  My mom wanted to come too, but they own their own business, and somebody has to stay home and keep the shop open.

#2:  Getting Rid of Crap
I have a lot of stuff.  Yes, I live in an 445 square foot apartment right now, but I have made use of every possible space for storage.  I've been accumulating "stuff" from Goodwill for the past two years, since I rented my first apartment alone.  The past three years' birthday and Christmas wish lists have been filled with practical things - kitchen utensils, pots, pans, cookbooks, glassware - all of which are still "brand new" to me, and not worth giving away or donating, simply because I'd just have to go and buy them again.  My little brother is moving into his first apartment by himself, so he's taking most of my unwanted furniture - bookshelves, chairs, etc.  I swear I'm not a packrat.  It's just so hard to get rid of things that are still functional.  Still, I will be making a lot of trips to the Salvation Army across the road from my apartment in the next two weeks.  Fingers crossed that whatever I have left fits into the Suburban...

#3:  Packing, packing, packing
It's not as simple as it seems.  I've made three checklists that need to be completed before I move out of the apartment in two weeks - one is a list of each room in my apartment, and what needs to be done to each of those rooms.  For example, the bathroom:

-  Clean out medicine cabinet
-  Clean out cabinet above toilet
-  Clean out cabinet / drawers beneath sink
-  Move jewelry to "travel" storage
-  Wipe down empty cabinets
-  Take apart jewelry armoire
-  Take everything off walls, fill nail holes
-  Clean shower
-  Clean toilet
-  Wipe down sink / mirrors
-  Mop floor

See those three I've crossed off the list?  That took me an entire day.  Mostly because I was sorting out what was good to keep, what was good to donate, what I had to throw away, what I could pawn off on my friends...


The second list I have is a list of goals for each week.  So, for example, this week I was scheduled to:

  • Apply for 3 jobs per day (minimum)
  • Follow up on last week's applications
  • Make a run to Goodwill
  • Finish Living Room, Bedroom, and Closet checklist
  • Take pictures of furniture for Freecycle
Umm... yeah.  It's the end of the week, and that's what my list currently looks like.  Granted, I might make a run to donate some stuff today, and I might finish my closet, but the rest of my goals will most likely not be finished today.  Oops.

And the third list:  my "paperwork" list.  A list of bills that need to be paid, accounts that need to be transferred, canceling cable and utilities, address changes, job apps, apartment walk-throughs... this list stresses me out.  

On that note... we will continue this discussion in a later post.  And hopefully, by the next time I write, I will be in much better shape for moving.  Eek!

Malice
 
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